stop being unhappy with yourself, and wishing you looked like someone else, or wishing people liked you as much as they like someone else. stop hurting your body, your face, your personality. love them. without those things, you wouldn't be you. and why would you want to be anyone else? be confident with who you are. smile. it'll draw people in. if any one hates on you bc you're happy with your self, stick your finger in the air, say screw it. my happiness will not depend on others anymore.